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独自旅行时如何结识人

独奏旅行变得孤独。没有避免它。独自旅行时,您可能会在不与另一个人交谈的情况下在交通中度过几天。当您终于到达准备社交活动的旅馆时,让自己在那里结识同行旅行者似乎令人生畏。特别是对于那些焦虑的人。本指南概述了19种在独自旅行时结识人们的方式。

Stay in a Hostel Dorm

This is the easiest way to make friends while solo traveling. By living in such close quarters with other people, you basically have to socialize. Even if you don’t feel like starting a conversation, sooner or later, one of your dorm mates will start asking you the classic hostel questions such as “Where are you from? Where are you going? How long are you traveling?”, etc. These basic dorm room conversations are so common that they become tiring after a while. The good news is that they usually end up in a new hostel friendship.

旅行前使用社交媒体与网上人联系

这些天,有些人发现与亲自交朋友的朋友更容易。这完全很好。使用类似的网站Meetupor沙发冲浪to meet locals, fellow travelers, and expats. Post your travel plans on your personal social media accounts to see if anyone wants to meet up. Who knows, maybe a friend of a friend is in town. This way, you can arrange an activity or simple meet up with your new friends before you even arrive. You may even find a travel buddy.

选择一个社交宿舍

您选择的旅馆在与人见面的容易或困难方面起着重要作用。一些旅馆旨在帮助您结识旅行者。其他旅馆是为了和平与宁静而设计的。他们通常到处都是当地学生或工人。与这里的人见面可能是一个挑战。

为了增加您在旅馆见面的机会,请选择一个拥有大的公共区域和酒吧的机会。另外,看一顿饭的旅馆。这是与客人见面的绝佳时机。如果您进入那个场景,派对旅馆是与其他旅行者见面的理想选择。

a hostel dorm room

一个典型的旅馆宿舍房间

更多的帮助,看看我的向导:How to Choose the Best Hostel.在这里,我将旅馆分为12个类别,以帮助您选择每个城市中最好的旅馆。

使用在线约会

These days, this is probably my favorite way to meet people in a new city. The main reason is that I get to spend time with a local rather than another tourist. The date becomes a legitimate cultural experience. Your date can show you some cool local spots and teach you the dating culture in their country. Also, you never know, you may even meet your soulmate.

无论出于何种原因,选择的约会应用都取决于您旅行的区域。我坚持自由。如今,Tinder似乎是世界上最受欢迎的。您也可以尝试Badoo和OkCupid。

You should take a few safety precautions while going out on a date in a foreign city. Meet in a public place like a park, cafe, restaurant, or bar for your date. Watch your drink so you don’t get drugged. You also have to watch your wallet. Occasionally a date may try to take advantage of you because they assume that you’re rich, as a traveler.

Have a Drink at the Hotel or Hostel Bar

这可能是在旅行时结识人们的最佳方法。在享用几杯饮料的同时,很容易与酒保或坐在您旁边的人进行对话。要求他们推荐当地饮料。向他们询问城市中的事。一个简单的问题可以变成对话。

聊天一会儿后,请提供下一轮饮料。现在你有一个朋友。如果您焦虑或与像我这样的人聊天,喝几杯可以使社交更容易。

进行免费徒步旅行

这些在世界范围内变得非常流行。要找到一个,只需在线进行搜索或在您的旅馆接待处询问即可。通常,您会在市中心遇到小组并指南,并花几个小时在主要地点漫步。这为您提供了一个很好的机会,可以与您的旅游团体中的旅行者见面。

A free walking tour in Prague

A free walking tour in Prague

保持积极的态度

如果您显得快乐和乐观,那么您结交朋友的机会会大大改善。尝试微笑并保持积极。人们自然会吸引积极的人。没有人愿意与不断负面并抱怨一切的人共度时光。不要成为黛比·唐纳(Debbie Downer)。

I struggle with this. I often experience depression, even while traveling. During these times, I find it harder to make friends due to my negative attitude. To remedy this, I use the ‘fake it till you make it method.’ Basically, I pretend to be friendly and happy. Eventually, I’ll make some friends and my mood will improve.

Ask Everyone in the Common Area if they Want to Join You in an Activity

这个人有点神经,但是您几乎可以肯定会见某人。只需宣布您将在公共区域做的事情,并说欢迎任何人加入。您可以邀请他们吃饭,去城镇散步,去观光,去商店,去喝酒,等等。

This sounds kind of awkward while I’m writing this out but in reality, it’s not. If there are 5 people in the common room, chances are someone will take you up on the offer almost every time. Particularly if they are traveling alone.

Once, while I was sitting around a hostel common area in Quito wasting time on my phone, an English girl walked and loudly asked if anyone wanted to go for a walk. I didn’t have any plans so I decided to join her. We ended up having a nice afternoon taking photos and wandering around the city. After that, we went back to the hostel for dinner and a few drinks.

Share Your Food or Drinks

俗话说,通往一个人心脏的最快方法是通过他们的肚子。您可以通过与他们分享您的食物或饮料来与某人建立即时的友谊。

如果您知道如何做饭,请去旅馆的厨房,搅打一大盘您喜欢的饭菜。向旅行者提供一些。如果您不知道如何做饭,购买一些饼干或糕点,并与公共区域甚至员工中的人分享。您很快就会结交朋友。

Buy a bag of fresh fruit and share it with fellow travelers in the hostel common area

You could also buy a 6 pack of beers and drink a couple in the common area. Offer other travelers a beer. It’s almost guaranteed that they’ll take you up on it. If someone’s giving out free beer, wouldn’t you want to make friends with them?

尝试在独自旅行时看起来平易近人和友好

Unfortunately, your looks can have a major impact on your ability to make friends while traveling. For example, if you dress in all black and frown all the time, fellow travelers will be far less likely to strike up a conversation with you.

有时候我有麻烦。我是个高个子,头有剃光头和胡须。我的自然面部表情看起来不太友好。我知道有时我看起来不太平易近人。为了解决这个问题,我试图打扮不错,微笑,使自己看起来更友好,愿意结识人们。

注册宿舍活动或郊游

Many hostels offer free outings and activities like walking tours, pub crawls, dance lessons, barbecues, etc. Some hostels have a travel agency where you can book inexpensive day tours to see the major sites in the region.

如果您感到孤独,请注册其中一项旅馆活动。您最终将与一小群旅行者一起度过一天。很可能会遇到小组中的一些独奏旅行者。在活动期间,您可以轻松结交一些新朋友。

a group of people on a hostel outing

Stay with a Local Host or Couchsurf

, Couchsurfing给你立即frie住宿nds in a new country. From the moment you arrive, you have somebody to talk to. Most hosts are happy to take you out and show you around their city. They’ll introduce you to their friends and family as well. They expect nothing in return but some good conversation. Of course, it’s nice to treat your host to a meal or a few drinks as a thank you.

在运输中结识其他旅行者

旅行时,您花了无数小时闲逛buses, trains, planes,and ferries. This is a great opportunity to strike up a conversation with a fellow traveler. Many people would be happy to have a conversation to help pass the time. If you’re heading to the same destination, you can exchange contact info and meet up later.

在服用时从赫尔辛基到圣彼得堡的渡轮,I struck up a conversation with the guy I was sharing a cabin with. He turned out to be an interesting guy who worked in IT in St. Petersburg. When we arrived, he gave me a ride to my hostel and we enjoyed some coffee together.

长途巴士

在公共汽车上与某人聊天是时间的好方法。

Learn a Few Words of the Local Language

在旅行时,这是一个不错的破冰船。当您努力用语言学习几句话时,人们通常会欣赏它。特别是当该国以外的语言罕见时。尝试学习简单的单词和短语,例如Hello,谢谢您,您好吗,欢迎您,早上好,等等。

在柬埔寨的一家餐厅里等我的食物时,服务员认为教我几句话是当地语言的好话很有趣。在我用餐的过程中,我拿起了一些基本短语。在我在该国的剩余时间里,我在与当地人互动时使用了这些单词。他们总是听到外国人说他们的语言的踢球。通常,这导致了对话和快速的友谊。当我等待暴雨时,一个人甚至给了我啤酒。

上课

Maybe you want to study the local language or learn a new skill like cooking, diving, surfing, etc. Taking a class while traveling is a great way to learn something new as well as meet people with similar interests. When taking a class, you immediately have something to talk about with everyone involved. Chances are, you’ll spend time with your classmates after class as well.

我在泰国这样做。我一直想学会潜水,所以我在Koh Tao的一所潜水学校注册了开放水课程。白天,我和一小群人一起上了课,然后跳下去。在晚上,我们一起吃饭,喝了几杯酒。我们都住在同一宿舍。在大约10天的时间里,我结交了一些好朋友。

Look for a Club or Community of People with Similar Interests

Whatever your interest, chances are you can find a group of people with the same interest in most decent-sized cities. For example, maybe you like to ride bicycles like me. You can probably find a bike club in most any city. Rent a bike and join them for a ride. The same is true of surfing, rock climbing, chess, etc.

志愿者或国外工作

Sites likeWorkawayorwwoofallow you to work in exchange for food and housing. Opportunities like this exist all over the world. Farm and hostel work are probably the most common types of jobs available for travelers. You can stay anywhere from just a few days to months on end. It’s up to you and the host.

在从事这些类型的工作时,您会与像自己和当地人一样的旅行者一起工作。在休息期间,您可以与新朋友一起探索并享受该地区。

Volunteering works the same way. You spend your days working with a group of people with similar goals and interests to yourself. Chances are, you’ll build a quick friendship with the people working alongside you.

Ask Questions

结识人们的一种好方法是问他们问题。在旅馆中,您可以向人们询问他们的旅行,计划或他们来自何处的信息。与当地人交谈时,您可以向他们询问他们在国家要做的文化或建议。

People will almost always answer your questions out of kindness, even if they don’t want to talk. If you don’t make a new friend, at least you’ll learn something.

在国外与朋友或家人见面

也许您有一个来自家中的朋友,他住在国外。也许您在另一个国家有家人。您可以不用结交新朋友,而可以花时间与已经拥有的朋友在一起。这样,您知道您已经有了连接。

Remember, You Don’t Need to Meet People Everywhere You Go

您不必一直在与人们交谈并始终尝试结交朋友。我注意到有些旅行者这样做,他们只是在大部分时间努力。独自做事是完全可以的。就个人而言,我通常更喜欢一个人。我有点孤独。

我多年来旅行的一个奇怪的观察是,一些独奏旅行者似乎取得了旅行的成功,他们结交了他们和他们认识的人的朋友人数。如果他们不在特定城市交朋友,那是一个坏城市。

能够独自享受一个地方也很重要,因为您不会在任何地方结交朋友。但是,我知道,人们比许多旅行目的地都能留下更持久的印象。必威betway App下载

A man hiking alone

Doing things alone is perfectly fine. You don’t have to constantly be meeting people while traveling if you don’t want to.

在旅行时结识人们的现实

如果您期望在旅行时建立深厚的纽带和终身友谊,那么您将感到失望。您形成的大多数友谊将是简短且相对较浅的。您将分享一些饮料和笑声,并看到一些景点,但仅此而已。几天后,您或您的旅馆朋友将继续前进。他们将在下一个目的地结交新朋友,您也会去。

Chances are, you won’t stay in contact with the people that you meet during your trip for more than a few months after you return home. It’s still well worth putting in the effort. Even though the friendships may not last a lifetime, the memories will.

旅行时,您每隔一段时间都会结识一个真正的终身朋友。我在旅行中遇到了很多人,我在开会后几年一直保持联系。有些人,我什至在他们的祖国或世界各地的不同地方见面。

Final Thoughts: How to Meet People While Traveling Alone

To make friends while traveling, you have to put in a bit of effort. Once you get talking to someone, friendships form quickly.

If you’re about to head out on yourfirst solo tripand are worried about not being able to make friends, the best thing you can do is to stay in a social hostel and visit the bar. Even if you just sit there, you’ll meet people most of the time.

The best piece of advice that I can give about meeting people while traveling is to put in an effort to interact with locals. It’s easy to fall into a habit of just making friends with fellow travelers because you already have something in common with them.

语言障碍和文化差异可能会使与当地人的互动感到有些吓人或困难。仍然值得努力。当地人可以教您有关您无法学的地区和文化的知识。与与您自己的完全不同的文化建立联系也是一种很棒的体验。它只是显示了世界各地的相似人物。

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